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[05 Feb 2006|10:32pm]


To all I write this, in hope that someone out there has been in this situation or can even offer some advise that can help in the long run or mostly to help with the pain.

My name is Brenda, im 18 and just finished high school in Australia, here is my story.

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Major Problem :-( [03 May 2005|05:39pm]

Dear Readers,
My name is Laura, and I'm 21 years old. This is the first time I've ever come into this community, and I am in some absolute desperate need of advice. The situation I'm about to discuss is going to involve a LOT of details, so for your convenience, I will use a LiveJournal cut for those who do not want their friends' page taking up so much room. Please, anyone and everyone who does read this, I really need all the help I can get. Well, here goes:

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Please, ANYONE, I'm begging you...Weigh in on the situation. What should I do? About Marcy? About Ron? Should I bother contacting Ron? Should I tell Marcy what went on? How should I do it, and when? Please, pleeeease anyone...Help me out here. Thank you
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Your help will make a difference [26 Feb 2005|10:48pm]
[ mood | optimistic ]

First of all sorry if following is offtopic. Really.

My name is Andrew Skolov and I'm from Russia. I have a wife and alittle daughter. I'll write more about myself in my LJ (which I've just started and I'll appreciate new friends greatly), so if anyone would like to know me better - check my blog.

The reason why I've decided to turn to you, people, is a bit different.
Last years I'm becoming more and more concerned about rather sad changes in society. Sometime just before the New Year I had a conversation with a friend of mine. We were talking about modern world, about human's place in it, about relations between people. And my friend said that unfortunately relations between the people are not improving despite the lessons of history, general progress, improvement of communication means and everything else. Moreover, people are loosing trust in each other, people become suspicious. He said that helping others, especially strangers (independantly of their situation and nature), is often taken as "being dum and naive", that human kind is becoming "suspicious, evil and fraudulent", that people tend to exploit each other and are using for that most sacred sides and qualities of the human nature. We talked and discussed this subject till the morning.
Such appeared and idea of my "Funds For Fun" project. It has two goals. Primarily I want to proove people who think similar to that friend of mine (who is just a great blocke, mind you) wrong. And secondly I hope to improve my own well-being and to make all kinds of nice things to my family, to my friends and to help those who are in need.

I'd really appreciate if you visit my site (its my first one BTW so please be indulgent), especially main and "About" pages and probably take part in the project. Also if you can publish link to that site everywere you can and to tell about my project to as many people as possible - that would be just great.

The "Funds For Fun" site is located here: http://www.skolov.front.ru.

I REALLY need your help.

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Promotion [30 Dec 2004|04:24am]

[ mood | creative ]

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Newbie! [22 Dec 2004|11:48pm]

[ mood | curious ]

Alright, my friend has an issue, and is too embarassed to ask herself, soooo...

She has been sexually active for a year. She's had sex at least 20 times since then, maybe more, and has never had an orgasm. She has been fingered, eaten out, masturbated, you name it. She still can't manage to get off. Is this normal, or should she be worried?

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[06 Dec 2004|01:12pm]

Hiya...first time poster here. ^_^ I'm Jess, I'm 24 years old, and I'm a high school RE teacher. I guess you'd call me bisexual, but I definitely prefer girls. :)

About a year ago, I started dating a woman I work with. She's called Vicki, and she teaches English. We'd been friends for ages before that. The thing is...I've never really been in a proper, long-term or serious relationship with anyone, and with Vicki, right from the beginning, it was purely physical. After a while she told me that she was falling in love with me, and I freaked out, because I assumed we were just together for the sex. I explained this to her, and...well, things carried on as normal. We were kissing in the storeroom after school one day, and another teacher who works at the school walked in. She's called Sarah and she teaches Science. Vicki knew her and I didn't. Vicki asked her out for a drink with us. Anyway, one thing led to another, and the three of us ended up having sex that week. I didn't particularly mind this whole threesome-thing, but then...we kept getting 'found out', in different ways, and now there are six of us. There's another Sarah, who teaches History, and Sinéad, who also teaches History, and Rachael, who teaches Maths. The six of us have sex regularly, and it's amazing.

But there are two problems.

The first problem is...I'm worried that this thing we have going on is preventing me from settling down with someone. Vicki was actually asked out by a guy she really likes, recently, and she turned him down for us. Even though this isn't a real relationship, it's purely physical. I'm not really looking for a serious relationship with anyone right now, but I'm afraid that what we're doing here will stop me getting one when the time comes. But at the same time, I don't ever want to leave my girls, because we're so comfortable with eachother, and the pleasure it brings is amazing.

The second problem is that Sarah W (the History one!) has been married since May this year. When we first started having sex with her, she was engaged. She's married to this guy called David, who teaches Maths at the school we work at. She hardly ever, ever talks about him to us. We've tried loads of times to talk seriously about it, but she just refuses or changes the subject or says she's got it all under control. But...I don't know. She loves him a lot, and they still have sex and stuff, but then...sometimes she'll complain to us about it. The most information we ever got out of her was one night when we all got really drunk, and she told us that she believed that there are hundreds of people for each person in the world. She said that she didn't believe that David was her soulmate or anything, and that even though she was married to him, she still wanted to go out and experience every different relationship she could. And I think that's why she's with us. It's not that she doesn't see anything wrong with it - it tears her up inside. But she won't leave him, or even just go back to being his girlfriend. She's been with him for six years.

It would be great if you could help. :)
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introduction [06 Dec 2004|02:25am]

[ mood | curious ]

I figured i would say hi since i have been commenting quite a bit. I am probably the old lady of the group i am 27. LOL. i am in graduate school right now and been though a lot so i have a lot of advice to give. right now i don't have any burning problems to write about but i like this community

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[30 Sep 2004|11:15pm]

[ mood | scared ]

I need help.

To make a long story short... I just got out of a 3 year abusive relationship, which left me the single mother of one wonderful little boy, Aidan (he'll be 2 in November). Paying for diapers, groceries, etc. wasn't a problem while I was in the relationship, but for my own health I had to get out of that.

Now, my problem is, I'm working, but I can't afford diapers, food, warm clothes, or anything I need for my son. I can barely afford the gas money to get to work, on top of babysitting $ and food.

I guess what I'm asking, and I'm sorry if I'm coming off sounding like a beggar... but if there is anyone out there who is better off than I am, if you could help me out in any way, I'd be VERY thankful. I don't have much support from my family and I really don't have any friends who could help me out, most of them are younger than I am anyways.

This is my last resort. If you could please help me, my email is plsmachic@excite.com, or I could email you if you comment with your email address.

Again, I'm sorry for asking, I just don't know where else to turn.

~* Laura *~

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new [23 Aug 2004|01:41am]

[ mood | accomplished ]

hi. i'm new. i just wanted to say that this community looks interesting, and it's small. which is a plus. it would be nice to have people to talk to once and awhile when family and friends just dont cut it. i think i'm pretty good at giving advice as well, so i guess it's a win/win situation. check out my livejournal if you please, add me, talk to me, do what you will =]

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[13 Aug 2004|09:05pm]

this may sound wierd or different, but I don't know what else to do.

my boyfriend of 3 years just recently got out of the Marines. He was in for 2 years, and got out on medical discharge cause he ended up losing a finger, long story. Well while he was there he was a completely different person. He always missed me, always wanted to talk to me, and couldn't wait to see me. He would always tell me that he couldn't wait to be home for good, so he could see me whenever he wanted and we could finally be together.

Well he comes home, and all of a sudden this guy friend, whom I've never heard of in the 3 years we'd been together, comes around. My boyfriend decides that it's more important to hang around this guy and be best buddies with him. I barely get to see him anymore, and when I do, he picks a fight with me so that he can leave.

I love him with all my heart, but it's taking alot out of me to keep this thing we have going. I really want to be with him, but he's too stubborn to look at and realize my POV on the subject. I just can't get over the fact that this guy is always around, and there is the need for my boyfriend to always be with him. I mean they do more together than my boyfriend and I do. They go out to dinner, movies and just plain hang out. I don't even get to do that with my boyfriend cause he never has the money to anymore, he spends it on going out with that guy.

How/what can I do to get him to understand where I'm coming from? I've tried talking to him about it, and he gets so pissed off that I'm assuming that he doesn't love me or something. He's very wierd with the situation at hand. Plus he holds on to things for SO long. I just want to get through the next few years and see where it goes with him. I know we both want to be together, and we love each other. But how do we make it work?

**Cross posted in a few places**
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here we go again with the boy problems.. [04 Aug 2004|01:18am]

[ mood | curious ]

So theres this guy(isn't there always) and i've liked him quite awhile. Lately, i've been getting a feeling he likes me too. We started talking online since I am the shyest person in quite possibly the world and then a couple of weeks ago, we went downtown with a couple of friends and he was really quiet. So was I but I was quiet because I like him and thats just how I am. Anyways, so I thought he had a bad time since he was being so quiet..but Friday, I think it was, He IMed me and we started talking about horror movies and how I got him a birthday present...and he said I could call him because I meationed that I was scared to. He was just being abnormally sweet and I just wanted to know your thoughts on if the possibilty is there of him liking me..

Thank you guys for always being there..Its like having strangers for best friends..lol and thats a good thing!

p.s: cross posted!

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[14 Oct 2002|05:37pm]

I put this in my private journal..... when I reference Thursday night just know that it was the worst night of my life.......

I hate to rehash what was a terrible weekend for me..... with the exception of one moment where I felt good (Dolphins game)...... but something is bothering me hardcore and I'm bouncing between thoughts of whether it's salvageable or not.....

Thursday night as all of you know, was a night I never want to have again..... It was so bad I laid in bed most of the following day contemplating my life and the lingering effects of a stupid mistake I made..... When the night rolled around I decided to join my friend Jeff and this girl Erin for some dinner at Sakura..... To try and shake myself out of my funk I decided to give this girl Vanessa a call whom I met the weekend prior....
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I'm new, but... [28 May 2002|10:43am]

[ mood | confused ]

I'm in this very confusing relationship and need advice. Like a while back, this friend of an old friend of mine met my best friend and flirted with her something awful. She liked him for awhile, but then got over it. Just recently, she gave him my number and told him I liked him^^;; So he called me. I had talked to him online before, but not in person. The guy is kinda odd in my opinion, but he's interesting. I dunno why, but (using the childish term) "like" him. I've "liked" guys before, but he seems to be recipricating.. I saw him at the theater, but didn't say anything cuz I wasn't sure if it was him or not. He called me that night and I told him we were there and asked him if he saw us. He had, of course... He thought we were staring a him. He also thought we looked like middle school kids. *sigh* The big problem is that he's extremely different from me. He's the sterotypical "prep" and thinks I'm out of style. He also tells me my friend (the one he had flirted with before) has no style. Another thing is that he can't seem to get over the fact that I'm "innocent". By "innocent" I mean never having gone on a date or kissed a guy or anything else like that. I dunno what to think. I like talking to him and he continues to call, any advide?

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allo! [21 Mar 2002|03:00pm]

[ mood | content ]

Hey all. I just joined this community! Seemed interesting, and two of my friends are already here. (leshand xqueeniex)
Anyway, I'll be keeping an eye on it!

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-first entry- [31 Jan 2002|11:16pm]

I just thought i'd say hello so....

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hello! [30 Dec 2001|11:07pm]

[ mood | mellow ]

I know this doesn't have anything to do with this community but i'm so into cumboy journal I don't know why hmm?

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:) [27 Dec 2001|05:08pm]

[ mood | happy ]

Hey everyone.Im content with the way this journal is coming along. Even tho we dont have that many members, we all seem to be commenting on everyones posts. I'm glad its a cozy community, and so far so good, everyone is nice :)

oh yes and for anyone just "watching" you might want to join because I would imagine alot of the posts will be private :)

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[24 Dec 2001|04:17pm]

[ mood | "festive" ]

Not too sure if I'll be able to say it any later, as the family's all here, and much drinking will ensue, so I'll take this opportunity to wish you all a vewwy mewwy kawissmiss.

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[16 Nov 2001|12:44am]

hey guys
just posting some shit
not as serious as other peeps posts so yeah...

im wondering if anyone has any idea about dreams. coz i have been finding it very hard to sleep lately, and when i do, i have very horrible dreams. i remember very very few dreams i actually have. but the last two nights ive had quite vivid ones. the first involves me running around a swamp with friends and keeping on stumbling upon snakes. different sizes, but all green with orange stripes. i somehow know they are dangerous. it ends up with me holding a very large one and it keeps on lunging at me and i cant tell whether it has bitten me or not. and just before i wake up its teeth mutate into huge anime-like teeth and i think they get me, not too sure..
in the other its more of a feeling than a story sequence. a feeling of lack of control and infinite smallness in the world.. big black void and me..
any ideas?!
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Just work problems...minor ones [13 Nov 2001|07:24pm]

[ mood | aggravated ]

Within the past 30 minutes I've just become so depressed, and no one answers their phone so I can talk. I just talk to my friend/supervisor, Scott a while ago as we are the grumpy bitchy guys that tend to actually go out and make trouble within our district office. And he tells me that the supervisor job I was lined up for has been given to our new area managers daughter, who came from a different district just because her mother had to transfer to ours. So I said I'd threaten to quit if something like tha ever happened, and apparently it did...I'm just thinking if I should go out tomorrow and apply at our rival company, letting them know I'll be quitting when I get hired with them...if its possible.

Bleh, this just sucks, and since the office the manager came from is more strict, we were just very laid back. Everything is passing over to our district manager and she acts like she couldn't care less if I quit, whereas taken to September and back I wasn't even allowed to quit since doing so would make things much harder for everyone. But today I just got my friend Liz working there and I don't know what will happen to her status there if I do quit. It's not all that big a deal really....all of this whole crap going on, I can stay out of work for maybe 2 weeks. But should I complain to my DM and threaten to take the matter higher up, and possibly to HeadQuarters? I dunno..


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